Remembering Ashley Kittelson, A Devoted Mother, Nurse, and Victim of Intimate Partner Violence.
We remember Ashley Kittelson, whose life was tragically taken on March 6, 2026, in International Falls. At just 35 years old, Ashley became Minnesota’s third confirmed victim of intimate partner homicide in 2026, a heartbreaking reminder of the devastating impact of domestic violence.
Authorities say Ashley was shot and killed inside her home by her husband, Nicholas Kittelson, 44, who then died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. The tragedy was discovered early that morning when a deputy on routine patrol noticed a vehicle running in the driveway of Ashley’s home and recognized that there was an active protection order involving the vehicle’s owner and Ashley. When attempts to contact anyone inside failed, officers entered the residence and found both individuals deceased.
Court records show that Ashley had recently filed an emergency protection order describing a history of abuse, including threats against her life and incidents where Nicholas allegedly assaulted her and even put a gun to her head. Despite multiple violations of that order and related charges, he had been released from jail just days before the fatal shooting.
Beyond the tragic circumstances of her death, Ashley is remembered by those who knew her as a compassionate nurse and a loving mother of three young children. Friends and loved ones say she dedicated her life to caring for others, both in her work and in the unwavering love she gave her family.
Her passing has shaken the community and left a profound loss for her children, family, and friends. As we remember Ashley Kittelson, we also remember the importance of speaking out against domestic violence and supporting those who may be living in silence and fear.








